Dear Readers

The following letter was written by a young girl on her 18th birthday, shortly after she received a birthday card from her mother.  The daughter had not seen her mother in almost 14 years.  The mother had been banished from the family by the courts after she got caught abusing her own children and then in an effort to deflect attention away from her wrongdoings, made false sexual abuse allegations against the  father which literally destroyed the whole family, including the children.  Luckily the mother was exposed along with social workers from the Children's Aid Society who also were found guilty of supporting the mother's lies, deceptions and abuse of her children.  Fourteen years, her children still remember the evil that their mother did to them, how the courts originally gave her custody, and how "the system" forced the father to lose everything he had to eventually save his two lovely daughters.

Only the names have been removed to protect the identity of the younger sister who was not 18 years of age at the time of this posting.  May this letter serve as a reminder to those parents who think that they can abuse their children by swearing false lies in an attempt to take them away from the other parent.  Their children will forever hate them for this. Just as this girl said to her evil mother, "The Lord works in mysterious ways"

Dear xxxxxxxxx (Name of girl's mother)

I completely unexpectedly received your birthday card two days ago.  Since then I’ve done a lot of thinking.  At first I decided to try hard and forget about it, but that didn’t work.  I don’t understand how can send me such a light hearted happy birthday card after all that you’ve done.  So I need to ask you some very serious questions and I’d like to let you know what an awful impact you’ve had on (name of sister), my Dad and myself.

I don’t’ know why you did the unbelievably disgusting things that you did with XXXX (mother's boyfriend) to XXXX(a young friend), XXXX(sister) and myself  I may have been young but there are some things that you can never forget even if you’ve desperately like to.   What went through your stupid mind when you decided to take XXXX (sister) and I and run off with another man?  Did you even stop to think what it was like for my Dad to come home and find his house empty and destroyed?  He wasn’t just worried about what had happened to (name of sister) and I, he was worried about you as well.   You were his wife, he trusted you with everything.  You even took all of his money, making him start from scratch on his small salary.

 I remember you told me we were going on a “camping-moving” trip and that we’d meet up with Dad later.  If you couldn’t handle being his wife then you should have been mature enough to figure out how to have a divorce like a normal civilized human being.

I’m sure you realize what kind of permanent effect you would have when you decided to make up those filthy lies about my Dad.  And I cannot believe that you continue to tell people these things.  What kind of person are you?  Have any of these people that believe you read the documents?  You were caught out time after time in lie after lie.  Maybe the only part you’ve shown them is where I lie.  But I bet no one knows that you sat me down and brainwashed me.  You told me that if I didn’t say certain things then my Dad would be killed and I never see him again.  I remember we were in the washroom of your first house in Oshawa.  You told me a lot of things in there.

My dad and I may have our problems which basically consist of me being a little bit of a rebellious teen and him being a stricter then I’d like.  However, I love him more than anyone in the whole world.  Not every father would do what he did for (name of sister) and I!  You on the other hand signed your rights to us away just to get let out of jail.   I bet none of your friends know that either.  Does xxxxxxx even know the whole true story?

When I think of you, two things come to my mind.  One I feel dreadfully sorry for you because I know that not all of you is bad, and I think that you must have some sort of mental illness. The other thing I feel is hate and disgust for what you’ve done.  I have to be brutally honest here when I tell you that I don’t think that I can ever forgive you for what you did.  I don’t hate you  but I sure as hell don’t have a lot of love for you.  What you did was out of pure selfishness, you didn’t care who you hurt.

My Dad is the strongest man I’ve ever met.  If I were in his shoes 13 or 14 years ago I probably would have had a nervous breakdown or just killed myself.  He is a man everyone respected and you tried to destroy that.  Do you have any idea what he must have felt like when people would look at him as if he was some kind of pervert?  I can’t even imagine it.   I feel like you made up all that stuff just so that people wouldn’t look at you as the bad guy who initiated the divorce.

I know that you  have people who think of you as some sort of victim who lost her children, but I’d like to let you know that you are no victim, you brought it on yourself.

I think you need to do some serious thinking about what kind of person you’ve become.  Maybe you regret what you did but you never corrected your mistakes and I think that it’s about time these mistakes were corrected.   I haven’t told my Dad that you sent me the card but I will.

What I’d like to do now is to give you a chance to tell all those people who’ve believed your lies the real truth and the story of what actually happened.  If you don’t do this then I promise you that I will.  It’s about time that everyone knew the real truth.   I’ve learned from experience that whatever lies you tell will eventually find you out,  In your case it took thirteen years.  I’m leaving it up to you for now.  I’m sure you may regret ever sending me that card but the Lord works in mysterious ways.

XXXX (signed)